Hey everybody,
So this is my first blog on my own and I am pretty excited about this. :) So let me do some introductions:
Now you aren't getting my name on here. lol. So I'm gonna call myself LLL, or trip L, or something of that nature. I am a college guy and as you can tell about the blog title, I'm gay, but not everyone knows it. lol. I am really a sweet person and am very outgoing and created this to kinda just get my voice out in the world.
More on me....um..lol. I'm in a fraternity. I love it, my brothers are awesome not all of them know that I like guys, but the one's that do, either don't care or are proud of me. So all good there. I have many besties and they may be named later, i'm not sure if I am actually gonna put their names, nicknames or whatever. lol.
Love life....well until a few weeks ago my love life was didn't exist, I had given up on guys, probably because all the college boys want is sex. But I found this amazing guy. :) I will probably just call him The Boy, because I think that is kinda cute. We are long distance, a 5 hour drive from each other. That may seem like not that far, but for us. those hours seem like voids in space and time.
How this all started, well, I have been keeping a blog with a couple of my besties and I thought that it would be fun to get out there and get a voice of my own, that and i haven't slept in close to 24 hours due to finals and am currently hyped up on sugar and mountian dew. lol.
Well that is me, now I feel like I should just go into my first actualpost that doesn't involve people getting to know a little bit of my background.
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This last night started officailly for me about midnight, I had been running around all day, going to class and meetings and such. But when I got down to doing my homework, chemistry....ick. I really couldn't wrap my brain around it. I would work on one problem at a time and inbetween I would watch the movie that was on the tv in front of me.
I know good student right? Homework and movies, perfect mix, add in a whole bunch of junk food and mountian dew and you have a party. lol. :)
Well the first movie I watched was picked by one of my besties Lissa. We watched Amelie, a french film which is weird to say the least. lol. It was good, but since I was doing homework I missed parts. And i can only speak a little French so some went in one ear and out the other. And the main guys wasn't really cute, so i kinda lost interest. lol. That and she fell asleep, so it kinda was just playing in the background. lol. A little later her boyfriend, one of my fraternity brothers came and woke her up and brought her to bed (now they are an innocent couple, don't get any ideas, shame on you for thinking such a thing) and at this time her older sister(actual) and my big brother(fraternity) came in and we started watching a new movie.
Now both myself and my big brother are gay, funny how that works out, lol. And my besties sister knows this so we watched a kinda gay movie named "Camp" now all I can say is the main actor Daniel Letterle is DAMN FINE!!! Oh god yes. I would do him in a heartbeat, not sure if he is gay or straight, but cute is cute. :) He entertianed me for a bit with his abs and such lol. And the homework took a little break. lol. My big brother and my besties sister are set on me being a flamer. For those who don't know what that is, it is a gay man that really let's his gay flag fly and they are the one's with the pink colored boas and the big lisp. and let me tell you something. I ain't one of them. lol. I hate pink, and can talk like any straight guy if I wanted to. Sure I know musicals, it because I'm a theatre geek, geez. Just sayin' I'm not a flamer or a queen, I'm a guy who happens to like guys. That's it.
After that movie, my big and my besties sister left. It was getting late and they were getting super tired. So i finished watching "Camp" on my own, which was good because the main guy gets naked at the end. SO HOT!!! lol. And after that was over, I prceded to watch Hugh Jackman in X-men. lol. A night full of gorgoeus men, lol.
Then I finished my homework, actually about an hour ago. lol. And then The Boy texted me telling me good morning and we watched the sun rise together, over the phone, pretty romantic for long distance. :) And now that that has finished, I feel like I should probably get some sleep, of some sort possibly. :) Well peace out!!
~LLL
"My big brother and my besties sister are set on me being a flamer. For those who don't know what that is, it is a gay man that really let's his gay flag fly and they are the one's with the pink colored boas and the big lisp. and let me tell you something. I ain't one of them. lol. I hate pink, and can talk like any straight guy if I wanted to. Sure I know musicals, it because I'm a theatre geek, geez. Just sayin' I'm not a flamer or a queen, I'm a guy who happens to like guys. That's it."
ReplyDeleteThis strikes me as very heteronormative, that you value how "straight" you can act, as though there's something better in acting "straight" than "gay."
There's nothing wrong with being a flamer, with liking pink if you're a guy (after all, colors don't have genders; we assign colors genders), with wearing boas, and having a lisp, all in conjunction with being gay.
I don't know if that's what you intended, but that's how it came off, that you think there's something weird or wrong with being a flamer, and I think that's just a weirdly hateful attitude to have, especially since you're gay and obviously interested in the rights you share with the "flamers." Calling someone a flamer, regardless of your orientation, is a pretty hateful thing. It's leveling them to two dimensions.
I hardly think you intended that, and it could just be me. But it seemed like a really shallow analysis of a stereotype when it comes to something like sexual orientation and the performance of it. It would be like a woman saying that she was just a woman, not that she was a slut or anything.
That is not what I meant in the slightest. Some of my best friends are what would be considered a "flamer", I was just saying that I don't consider myself one and didn't like being labeled one. just that simple nothing more than that. does that make sense? I in no way meant to offend anyone or sound mean. Just stating that gay men have been sterotyped into acting in such ways and I am gay and don't act like that. It's just me, but I love everyone, and I never intended on sounding like that.
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